How can I stop an spd child from doing something she's not supposed to do like unmaking a bed?

by april
(usa)

My daughter has spd she keeps unmaking her bed, taking out all of her summer clothes and wanting to put them, (its cold outside) unlocking my dish washer while it's running, (Kind of makes it hard to wash dishes) turning of the T.V. when we are watching a movie as a family. I can't keep up "I've tried everything from, having her help me make the bed back up, to time out, to not making it up at all (which that's she wants), but she has allergies so we really need to keep it made up, and if her bed remains unmade then she unmakes her sisters. Also she does this when we visit other places.

She will not keep the same outfit on. I'm having more laundry to do then needed because she some how mess-up some of the clothes. This is all being done in a day, while i'm also taking care of my youngest as well.

My youngest daughter is tired of her older sister unmaking her bed. It's so hard to teach my daughter now that she has gotten a little more demanding, SPD children i have found kind know its' wrong but all they know in moment is want they want to do. so they want give-up it's seems. i've notice that some of the things that she gets hook-on doing either will last 6 months or more, then its stops. Sometimes the habit stays w/ her. I've even tried redirecting the action and that's not helping anymore. I'm tired. Help!