What is right

I can't believe I found others who know what I am feeling! I have emotional sensitivities like crazy I feel every emotion! I've always been strange because of this. I also have the sensitivities to pain and loud noises. Both my kids are much more than me.

Is this inherited like autism is 90 percent rate. I've been to psych thinks I'm bipolar but the med made me severely depressed. Stopped that. His test showed ADHD but he thinks it's mood problem. I've been researching so much. And it is all sounding similar. I fit in many of them. Which one is right?