My 4 yr old has SPD and ADHD she does have temper tantrums but what I am experiencing is not that.. If she is too quickly forced to leave somewhere (or she feels it's too quickly even if it has been an hour of 10min warnings on how long we have left), or when something just isnt going as she seems to think it is my daughter has melt downs. She will start crying and will start breathing heavy and her eyes get glossy and she starts to yawn as she is about to almost pass out it seems. I have anxiety attacks (never in front of her so she doesn't learn this from me). I was just wondering if 4 was too young for her to have them or what/if anyone has some insight or suggestions. Normally to get her to stop i have to hold her tight and rock her to calm her down.. they sometimes last 30min even.. I'm just at my wits end.