Clothing sensitivity..... please help
My daughter is 4 1/2 years old and cannot for the life of her wear clothes. One day something will be okay enough to wear and the next day nothing is okay. We will literally go through all of her drawers, her entire closet, and the literally 20 pairs of underwear we have bought and nothing will "feel okay".
My big question is should i let my 4 year old go commando, i feel like in a way i'm letting her get away with this behavior but on the other hand i feel like if i'm making her wear them it's like telling a kid okay sit in this tub of scalding water and like it.
i'm so frustrated but sad at the same time, we are constantly fighting her to get her dressed and i don't like the relationship we have anymore, we have never been like this and it is only over clothes she will fight me, she was just diagnosed with sensory integration about a month ago... i just dont know what to do getting dressed is a part of everyday life. She can't walk around naked everyday!!!!
please help!!! my email is firstname.lastname@example.org if you have any advice or thoughts!!! thank you!!
p.s. i have also threatened to keep her home from preschool (which she loves) and it just ends up with her hitting and screaming ... which is not like her!!!!