my 12 yr old son has SPD. when we lived in VT he would mostly would wear sweat pants that were loose and soft and long sleeve t-shirts. He wont wear jeans, or cloths that have buttons or snaps,he complains everything rubs. We moved to TX and I can't find cooler pants he will wear now that he is in larger sizes. I bought a few elastic waste that I thought were soft but he won't were them. Living mostly in pj pants now. What do others do for clothing?