Daytime pant wetting at almost 8yr
My son is almost 8 years old. He is still having issue with day time pant wetting. This can range from damp with slight urine smell to a full out wetting of the pants. He is dry and always has been dry at night.
This has been an issue for about 4 years now. We have tested for diabeties and he has been to a urologist. For all intent purpose he is normal. The urologist felt this was a behavior issue. He is too focused on whatever he is doing to use the potty. My son is a bright intelligent kid and knows right from wrong. I have trouble thinking my son would choose to wet his pants and risk punishment just because he was playing. I'm confused, does he or not have control over wet pants? Is SPD a physical or an emotional issue?
I am at my wits end. The school is now involved. I'm not sure if his teacher is now hypersensitive to his issue(smell). Is she picking on him or is she is looking out for him. Regardless, he is very unhappy and for a sweet sensitive little boy he is becoming vocal and lashing out at school. I'm afraid he will get a reputation as a troubled child, I need help and advice from anyone who is or has been in my shoes.