At my wits end
I have an almost 4 year old daughter who is a monster. I love her with all of my heart, she can be a really wonderful child at times, but when she's angry or upset it's literally pure hell. Often times she'll be playing with her siblings and just hit them for no reason (7 1/2 year old brother and 2 1/2 year old sister). When she's upset she screams and is complete inconsolable, she's even tried hitting my husband or me when we're trying to talk to her. When she's angry/upset you can talk to her, touch her, nothing works.
I've tried everything I can think of and nothing works. We've tried reward charts, rewarding good behavior, I try not to make a huge deal out of poor behavior, we've taken away special treats and toys, we've done time outs, we've even spanked. Nothing works.
She's always hungry. She stayed the night with my mom and for breakfast ate 4 eggs and hashbrowns, 2 bowls of cereal, and a peanut butter and jelly sandwich for breakfast. She always eats like that, but she's a very healthy weight for her height.
I just don't know what to do. We have an appointment with her doctor next week. I'm hoping we might get some answers.