Daughter will not change her underwear because she doesn't want it to touch her anywhere
I cannot tell you how many types of underwear I have tried for my now 11 year-old daughter. I have tried Hanna Andersson, the Esme brand and others. I even tried making her a pair of homemade panties that were measured to match the current stretched out pair that she would wear every day.
I go through phases of really trying to push her to get her to change her underwear, and even tricking her into wearing a clean pair by hiding the worn pair while she is bathing, and then also just letting it go for a long time, because it is so traumatic for everyone.
What can I do, and what should I do? My daughter has never been diagnosed, but I'm positive she has SPD, so what does this mean for the rest of her world?
I care about her hygiene, and I worry about two or three years from now when she needs to wear underwear that fits her properly.
What I can do to fix this problem. I am a teacher, and I even have 25 graduate credits in Early Intervention/Early Childhood Special Education. I have worked with children of all abilities, but I don't know what to do to help my daughter.