Extreme Meltdowns and Night fits.
I am at a loss for words at this point in time. My son who is 4 1/2 has SPD and is very angry with me, not sure why it's towards me but when he meltdowns all me wants to do is hurt me.
We have been seeing an OT for a also most two years now, and it doesn't seem to be doing that much for the SPD.
We have also had some changes in our lives and along with that we are moving to Portsmouth,Va.
He is not willing to be brushed at all and wont do his therapeutic listening. Tonight he woke up with having to go to the bathroom and I helped him like I always do and he got mad which sent him over.
He than wanted to hit me,kick me slap me, bit me. I have been told by his OT to hold him and give him the hard pressure while he is having these fits, but the problem is he will either head butt me or I am not strong enough to hold him.
His behaviorist has tried to get him to take his anger out on pillows a punching bag, anything but me. Its not working. I am at a total loss. Please help is there anyone who has the same problem?