Frustrated in OKC

We have a beautiful three year old boy named Lincoln.

Ninety per cent of the time, he's a smart, sweet, lyrical, happy, fun angel. The other ten percent is often a meltdown of Chernobyl proportions. Our biggest concerns are:

Occasional pushing, hitting and/or biting at his day care.

Tantrums when changing from one event to another (example: coming in from recess.)

Very picky eater.

Any help is greatly appreciated.

God Bless,

Brian and Trinity Smith