When they try to be in control, they are just showing how much they want to control what they cant at this time control. They are trying to be in control because their bodies are so out of control with everything.
MY 3 yr old son will put balls in his shirt and play. As soon as he realizes I am watching him he runs and hides. He is VERY persistent about me leaving
I originally came to this site and just made this comment on somebody else's texture blog, but I figured, why not make my own blog and see how many people