My husband and I, along with our 3 year old SPD/ADHD son went to a large DIY store to pick up some paint.
Whilst waiting in the queue to pay for our stuff, my son said he needed the toilet. I gave my husband my bank card to buy our paint so that I could take my son off to find a loo. I could here laughter all around me so you can imagine my shock to see my little boy proud as punch having a poo on one of the display toilets ! Luckily the floor manager was very understanding but we haven't shopped there since.
I really appreciated reading that sensory processing deficits can be inconsistent; meaning, present one day and not the next. That is absolutely my experience