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Lashing out at peers

by worried
(UK)

My son is 7 years old and we have been looking for an explanation for his behaviour since he was a baby. Having had ASD ruled out we have recently been referred to an OT and are waiting for an appointment. Looking at the checklist he scores high in 8 of the areas particularly in Proprioceptive dysfunction, auditory dys, emotional dys, play dys and self regulation.

He is performing poorly at school despite being a bright child but more worryingly to us is his behaviour towards his peers as he frequently lashes out for no apparent reason, either in anger and frustration or just simply because they are there. The other day he banged together the heads of 2 of his classmates for no apparent reason, and was unable to explain his behaviour. His school are very supportive and understanding and needless to say we have tried punishments, incentives, talking through with him how other children feel etc. I havent seen much evidence of this sort of behaviour in other posts and wonder if anyone else has encountered this problem and can offer any advice.

HELP!

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Mar 18, 2010
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This could be my son
by: exhausted mom

My youngest child was born 2 months early, and had a skull fracture at 8 months. He has always been "different", as he needs to be watched all the time. He is always on the go, never walks, even in the house. He spins, lashes out unprovoked (and without anger), always making some kind of noise, but yet terrified of the noise of toilets and other things. Extremely impulsive, his nickname is Mr. Danger. He is very social, preferring adults. He functions "ok" in school in the morning with lots of direction, but after being around lots of kids in the lunchroom, afternoons he spends doing his own thing in the classroom, but still manages to learn. They have done testing on him with no official diagnosis yet (waiting for the doc),and I'm afraid he will be labeled ADHD, without ruling out other possibilities first. My biggest concerns are the hitting and impulsivity, as he has no fear and will walk up to a six grader and hit him/her. (My son is in kindergarten)

Feb 01, 2010
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Same Situation
by: Anonymous

I have a 5 yr old son who is doing the same things you listed. As I was reading your post, I felt like I could've been the one writing it! I have JUST recently started looking into the fact my son may have SPD.

Sep 26, 2009
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try to find out what's goiong on
by: father of four

It's great that the school is so supportive. That will make an enormous difference. He may be feeling overwhelmed and is reacting to that. Our SPD son would often retaliate in the playground, e.g. when jostled lining up, and unfortunately the school was not as understanding. Your OT should help you find out what sorts of things are upsetting him and assist in coming up with strategies for how to deal with this. It sounds like you are on the right path so keep going.

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