Pooping in pants and sleep apnea in 9 year old boy

by Carrie
(Seattle)

My son just turned 9. He poops in his pants at least 4-5 times a week, sometimes more. He says he can't feel it or smell it. He also has sleep apnea, and goes long periods not breathing until he finally starts thrashing around in the bed to sort of make himself take a big deep breath. Then about a minute later he does that again. I asked his school in 1st grade, and again last year to have him evaluated, but they just ignore me. I asked the doctor about SI disorder, and he pretty much just ignored me. I feel pretty sure he is Hyposensitive, is the pooping and sleep apnea also common symptoms of that condition? Has anyone else had this problem, and is there anything to do about it? Thank you