Tactile defensive with tight constricting clothing

Hayden is 3.5 yrs, she gives me grief about socks I bought the seamless socks and even those aren't good enough, she hates all socks. Loves sandals and flip flops but has to wears socks at her school. This is such a battle that i am late every morning, we have huge fights, and her teacher states she is Grumpy and mean to her classmates and perserverates on her socks. Any help?